Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Tattoo Artists...what's the appeal?
I've been talking with tattoo Tim from POF. Today was the first day we texted. Got me thinking. I've been with three tattoo artists and counting...what's the appeal??
Monday, September 28, 2009
Mr. Mark is number one
So it was a fantastic weekend. Mr. Mark and I have decided to go to Miami together next weekend. I couldn't be more stoked. he's so cute. I went to his place last night...he was competely shit tanked when i got there. He went into a are we datin bit...which I thought was really cute. He said he's not dating anyone else and he just wanted me to know that. It was funny and cute. He's increadible in the sack...we went at it all morning today...ugh I want to go back over there right now.
I met FF Jack (fast and fruious) Saturday night. Je's so cute. If he lived closer I'd want to date him...but he's in sarasota so he's just going to be a friend for now. He has a bit of cash which is kind of nice.
Okay well that's all I got at the moment. Super excited for Miami!!
I met FF Jack (fast and fruious) Saturday night. Je's so cute. If he lived closer I'd want to date him...but he's in sarasota so he's just going to be a friend for now. He has a bit of cash which is kind of nice.
Okay well that's all I got at the moment. Super excited for Miami!!
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Thursday, September 24, 2009
And I'm Back...
...not real sure why but I go mia from time to time.
Okay so let's start with Mr. Mark. He's so fucking hot I can't keep my hands off him. He was in Vegas over the weekend and was super cute via text. I think he may have some sort if relationship possibility but I'm not going to call it so soon. His texts were wish you were here. Just thinking about you thought I'd say hi. I miss you (weird...right?). And there were a few inappropriate ones along the way. He got back Tuesday morning. we went to dinner and watched a movie Tuesday night. It's fun and cute. I know I like him I'm just not sure what's going on between his ears. We're hanging out tomorrow night.
Okay met a guy from POF on Thursday...we went out of lunch. I almost fell over when we met. He was exactly what I always wanted to date before. He's tall, has tattoos, wears cute framed glasses, has style. We had a blast. We went out Friday to dinner and things started to get weird. we went to his places for a second and I think it was to "show" me off to his roommate. Then we went to his friends place that was a total shit box...like I never want to step foot in that place again. It smelled like cat piss and shit and mold. Ew. So he took me home and we had a some what forced on his part first kiss. It was a pretty decent first kiss. Left me wanting more. So we get together Sunday and it was all down hill. First of all he didn't wear his glasses or hat...and to be blunt he needed both. His face isn't all that attractive and he has scabs in his thinning hair from a skin disorder. fucking gross. I mean he should have waited a little longer before he grew the balls to show me that shit. He annoyed the shit out of me all day down to the way he stuck his tongue out to eat soup. I think I just threw up on my mouth thinking about it. Yuck. So he's out.
Went out Saturday night Jillian. It was some serious great times. for starters Chantel and he man toy met up with us for a bit and he was wowzer good looking. So I got to look at and from timw to time touch through out the evening. I met a hot Moroccan guy who was super interested (gave me his card and told Jill the next day to have me call him). My ex is Moroccan who turned out to be a liar and just an over all lunatic so I don't think I'll be calling him...we'll see. To finish off the dood happenings of the evening a friebds friend tried to hook me up with a client. Bad idea. Short, unattractive, possibly on drugs douche. That's all I got on that one.
So tonight I'm supposed to couger it out with Adam. I met Adam on POF imagine that. I sent him a message saying if I were younger I'd totally grab your ass...well Adam has been persistent ever since. So I may cave in tonight and go play with him for a bit. The low down...adam is 21 or 22, He lives with 3 roommates of the same age. Tonight he wants me to come over and play poker, rock band and maybe hit up a party in his complex...lmao...okay now that I say it out loud it sounds insane. There is no way I can hangout with him.
Okay well that's the sum of my man fun over the past week. Updates coming soon.
Okay so let's start with Mr. Mark. He's so fucking hot I can't keep my hands off him. He was in Vegas over the weekend and was super cute via text. I think he may have some sort if relationship possibility but I'm not going to call it so soon. His texts were wish you were here. Just thinking about you thought I'd say hi. I miss you (weird...right?). And there were a few inappropriate ones along the way. He got back Tuesday morning. we went to dinner and watched a movie Tuesday night. It's fun and cute. I know I like him I'm just not sure what's going on between his ears. We're hanging out tomorrow night.
Okay met a guy from POF on Thursday...we went out of lunch. I almost fell over when we met. He was exactly what I always wanted to date before. He's tall, has tattoos, wears cute framed glasses, has style. We had a blast. We went out Friday to dinner and things started to get weird. we went to his places for a second and I think it was to "show" me off to his roommate. Then we went to his friends place that was a total shit box...like I never want to step foot in that place again. It smelled like cat piss and shit and mold. Ew. So he took me home and we had a some what forced on his part first kiss. It was a pretty decent first kiss. Left me wanting more. So we get together Sunday and it was all down hill. First of all he didn't wear his glasses or hat...and to be blunt he needed both. His face isn't all that attractive and he has scabs in his thinning hair from a skin disorder. fucking gross. I mean he should have waited a little longer before he grew the balls to show me that shit. He annoyed the shit out of me all day down to the way he stuck his tongue out to eat soup. I think I just threw up on my mouth thinking about it. Yuck. So he's out.
Went out Saturday night Jillian. It was some serious great times. for starters Chantel and he man toy met up with us for a bit and he was wowzer good looking. So I got to look at and from timw to time touch through out the evening. I met a hot Moroccan guy who was super interested (gave me his card and told Jill the next day to have me call him). My ex is Moroccan who turned out to be a liar and just an over all lunatic so I don't think I'll be calling him...we'll see. To finish off the dood happenings of the evening a friebds friend tried to hook me up with a client. Bad idea. Short, unattractive, possibly on drugs douche. That's all I got on that one.
So tonight I'm supposed to couger it out with Adam. I met Adam on POF imagine that. I sent him a message saying if I were younger I'd totally grab your ass...well Adam has been persistent ever since. So I may cave in tonight and go play with him for a bit. The low down...adam is 21 or 22, He lives with 3 roommates of the same age. Tonight he wants me to come over and play poker, rock band and maybe hit up a party in his complex...lmao...okay now that I say it out loud it sounds insane. There is no way I can hangout with him.
Okay well that's the sum of my man fun over the past week. Updates coming soon.
Sunday, September 13, 2009
People really talk like this???
Okay so just checked my POF in box and this gem was waiting for me.
hi
I could fill these pages and still not describe how sweet and wonderful you are.
So fill them with your thoughts instead.
my lady
i am a male .......
i did not know a real meaning of a beautiful
and attractive for years ago.
but...........................
when i saw your eyes and your smile
i said the world is very very very very beautiful . ,
hi
I could fill these pages and still not describe how sweet and wonderful you are.
So fill them with your thoughts instead.
my lady
i am a male .......
i did not know a real meaning of a beautiful
and attractive for years ago.
but...........................
when i saw your eyes and your smile
i said the world is very very very very beautiful . ,
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Um...yeah...ew
So I went on my lunch date with Daddy Kent yesterday. Not awesome. Not even close to awesome the only good thing that came out of this "date" ew I don't even want to call it that is I found a new awesome restaurant in Tampa (Bin 27 Bistro...yum!).
Fucking gross is all I can say. So on his profile Kent came off as a nice sweet artistic somewhat attractive guy. Kent turned out to be a freakin unattractive loser that still lives at home with his parents. For serious!? Yup. Ew I don't even want to waist my time talking about him...but I will. Here goes. So he said he was 5'10 on his profile he was at least two inches shorter then me (I'm 5'8). His photo on his page was what I refer to a luck photo...he lucked into a good angle with that one. He is fucking bald with hair that's like half an inch long on his head...weird. And he kept staring at me...it was weird. We really had nothing to talk about. He showed me his lame ass tribal tattoos that he designed himself on some lame computer program from the 90's. He said he was a musician on his profile then when we were talking he said his instruments and everything are in storage and have been for over a year...that makes you a non musician...an ex musician. He said he moved in with his parents so he could go to nursing school (yeah I said it...fucking wants to be a nurse)...but he's not going until next Fall as in over a year away. Fucktard.
Okay off that horse. I have a date with Mr. Mark tonight. I'm really excited to see him. Although I went out with Jamie and Mel last night and Mel had less then desirable things to say about him. She kept calling out his manicured eyebrows (it's cracking me up thinking about it right now)...she said he's a bit of a db...I'm going to go into tonight with an open eye looking for the douchebagery she was speaking of. I'm crossing my fingers that she's wrong.
Oh and Pool Boy Will sent me a text yesterday (first communication since our date). He said "Thanks for hanging out the other night. It was nice". Short to the point...I think we're going to shoot to hangout Wednesdayish.
Fucking gross is all I can say. So on his profile Kent came off as a nice sweet artistic somewhat attractive guy. Kent turned out to be a freakin unattractive loser that still lives at home with his parents. For serious!? Yup. Ew I don't even want to waist my time talking about him...but I will. Here goes. So he said he was 5'10 on his profile he was at least two inches shorter then me (I'm 5'8). His photo on his page was what I refer to a luck photo...he lucked into a good angle with that one. He is fucking bald with hair that's like half an inch long on his head...weird. And he kept staring at me...it was weird. We really had nothing to talk about. He showed me his lame ass tribal tattoos that he designed himself on some lame computer program from the 90's. He said he was a musician on his profile then when we were talking he said his instruments and everything are in storage and have been for over a year...that makes you a non musician...an ex musician. He said he moved in with his parents so he could go to nursing school (yeah I said it...fucking wants to be a nurse)...but he's not going until next Fall as in over a year away. Fucktard.
Okay off that horse. I have a date with Mr. Mark tonight. I'm really excited to see him. Although I went out with Jamie and Mel last night and Mel had less then desirable things to say about him. She kept calling out his manicured eyebrows (it's cracking me up thinking about it right now)...she said he's a bit of a db...I'm going to go into tonight with an open eye looking for the douchebagery she was speaking of. I'm crossing my fingers that she's wrong.
Oh and Pool Boy Will sent me a text yesterday (first communication since our date). He said "Thanks for hanging out the other night. It was nice". Short to the point...I think we're going to shoot to hangout Wednesdayish.
Saturday, September 12, 2009
POF Profile
No date last night...thought I'd share my plenty of fish profile...Going on a lunch date with Daddy Kent in a few hours. He's cute...probably a little on the too much baggage side of things but we'll see.
My hobbies...what a funny word. I get to play with my creative side with work...I'm a makeup artist. In my everyday life I enjoy the usual I suppose. I like to read, write, be outside, go out on the water, cook...I'm interested in learning how to play golf. I run a couple times a week...I'm not a super health nut, well I cook healthy for the most part...I just think I look better when run...so it's completely vain.
Goals well in a personal sense I would be happy to fall in love and settle down...it just hasn't been in the cards for me up to this point in my life. I have many dreams and goals for my professional life and spend time everyday working towards them.
What makes me unique...is that even something someone answers about themselves? I'm sort of off beat in a sense...I laugh at just about everything. I'm incredibly sarcastic and usually the first to say what everyone else is thinking. Quirky is a good word to describe myself...although someone recently told me that quirky is a bad thing...he lasted one date.
Taste in music...all over the place...is that a taste? I just did a shuffle on my ipod and here are the ten bands that came up...Lily Allen, Bayside, Cake, Lynyrd Skynyrd, Tom Petty, Phoenix, Bon Jovi, Anberlin, Of Montreal, Frank Sinatra. I think it's safe to say I like a little of everything.
Okay with the emails I've been receiving I think I need to put a little about what I'm looking for. I'm looking to date a man who is interested in working towards a relationship if the connection and chemistry is there. I'm looking for someone who stays active and fit but isn't obsessed with his body. Someone who is in a career and not just working a job. I date men who are taller then me (sorry short guys I know you need lovin too it's just not my cup of tea). I'm attracted to white guys with dark hair (not a requirement just usually what I find attractive). I'm not looking to be attached at the hip off the bat. Not sure if this will help but we shall see.
***lmao if you lie about your height on here you fall into my super lame category...what a girl isn't going to notice you're 3 inches shorter then you stated...lame***
***If you think your and you're or their, there and they're are interchangeable or you simply don't know when to use them properly your (;p) probably not the guy for me***
My hobbies...what a funny word. I get to play with my creative side with work...I'm a makeup artist. In my everyday life I enjoy the usual I suppose. I like to read, write, be outside, go out on the water, cook...I'm interested in learning how to play golf. I run a couple times a week...I'm not a super health nut, well I cook healthy for the most part...I just think I look better when run...so it's completely vain.
Goals well in a personal sense I would be happy to fall in love and settle down...it just hasn't been in the cards for me up to this point in my life. I have many dreams and goals for my professional life and spend time everyday working towards them.
What makes me unique...is that even something someone answers about themselves? I'm sort of off beat in a sense...I laugh at just about everything. I'm incredibly sarcastic and usually the first to say what everyone else is thinking. Quirky is a good word to describe myself...although someone recently told me that quirky is a bad thing...he lasted one date.
Taste in music...all over the place...is that a taste? I just did a shuffle on my ipod and here are the ten bands that came up...Lily Allen, Bayside, Cake, Lynyrd Skynyrd, Tom Petty, Phoenix, Bon Jovi, Anberlin, Of Montreal, Frank Sinatra. I think it's safe to say I like a little of everything.
Okay with the emails I've been receiving I think I need to put a little about what I'm looking for. I'm looking to date a man who is interested in working towards a relationship if the connection and chemistry is there. I'm looking for someone who stays active and fit but isn't obsessed with his body. Someone who is in a career and not just working a job. I date men who are taller then me (sorry short guys I know you need lovin too it's just not my cup of tea). I'm attracted to white guys with dark hair (not a requirement just usually what I find attractive). I'm not looking to be attached at the hip off the bat. Not sure if this will help but we shall see.
***lmao if you lie about your height on here you fall into my super lame category...what a girl isn't going to notice you're 3 inches shorter then you stated...lame***
***If you think your and you're or their, there and they're are interchangeable or you simply don't know when to use them properly your (;p) probably not the guy for me***
Friday, September 11, 2009
Hello Pool Boy
I walked in from my date last night and couldn't stop smiling. Pool Boy Will is fucking hot. He has the most insane body...huge arms, smaller waist, tight ass stomach...I could not stop looking at him. His face was super cute too, pretty blue eyes, facial scruff, big smile, straight teeth. I honestly didn't expect anyone online to look like him. Down side...he's a fucking pool boy (kind of hot in the sense of fantasy...which I do hope to fulfill...but not for serious I can't really dig him).
Okay so Will...he's a 26th year old father of a lying 9 year old boy and they both live with Will's father and step mom. Ew. I find this all out within the first 10 minutes...I swear if he didn't look like he does I would have thanked him for the coffee and his time and bailed out. But I couldn't. It was weird...I guess I now understand how guys can stick around dumb ass retard girls that are hot. It's this weird magnetic force...I really never understood it until tonight. I will never talk shit about smart fantastic men dating dumb freakin sluts...they truly can't help it.
So we ended up having a lot of things to talk about. He has super yummy tattoos, he's kind of jaded and doesn't like most people (I can play that personality well). We really do get along well...I can tell he thinks he's found a connection with someone...which is cool. I mean I will hang out with him again. I can't not. I mean he's this freakin hot pool boy (seriously new fantasy I cannot explain...okay I can explain it...Will) who is a bad boy...who is everything I'm not supposed to be dating. Ugh. I just want to touch him. He listens to hardcore metal...I just keep playing my version of what would happen if we fucked and it's way too hot and insane to describe. I mean loud crazy metal music, his hot sweaty body, my dirty mind...just ew yummy dirty probably illegal in some states fucking that I don't think I've ever really experienced....ugh I want to touch him.
See I'm sweating right now just thinking about it.
On a side note...Mr. Mark and I spoke when I got home. We're going to get together Sunday night for movie night and pizza. He's so cute.
Fucking pool boy.
Okay so Will...he's a 26th year old father of a lying 9 year old boy and they both live with Will's father and step mom. Ew. I find this all out within the first 10 minutes...I swear if he didn't look like he does I would have thanked him for the coffee and his time and bailed out. But I couldn't. It was weird...I guess I now understand how guys can stick around dumb ass retard girls that are hot. It's this weird magnetic force...I really never understood it until tonight. I will never talk shit about smart fantastic men dating dumb freakin sluts...they truly can't help it.
So we ended up having a lot of things to talk about. He has super yummy tattoos, he's kind of jaded and doesn't like most people (I can play that personality well). We really do get along well...I can tell he thinks he's found a connection with someone...which is cool. I mean I will hang out with him again. I can't not. I mean he's this freakin hot pool boy (seriously new fantasy I cannot explain...okay I can explain it...Will) who is a bad boy...who is everything I'm not supposed to be dating. Ugh. I just want to touch him. He listens to hardcore metal...I just keep playing my version of what would happen if we fucked and it's way too hot and insane to describe. I mean loud crazy metal music, his hot sweaty body, my dirty mind...just ew yummy dirty probably illegal in some states fucking that I don't think I've ever really experienced....ugh I want to touch him.
See I'm sweating right now just thinking about it.
On a side note...Mr. Mark and I spoke when I got home. We're going to get together Sunday night for movie night and pizza. He's so cute.
Fucking pool boy.
Gotta love online dating
This is always a little awkward but oh so fun to share.
From: dkl****** (View Profile)
Subject: Holy freakin EYES!!! Sent Date: 9/10/2009 10:22:30 AM
What's up? I'm sure you're really attractive and what not, but looking at your profile, I think you'd be the coolest person to just chill with; what side of town do you spend your time on?
From: *****MUA (View Profile)
Subject: RE:Holy freakin EYES!!! Sent Date: 9/10/2009 2:27:18 PM
Hey I live in Tampa...near International Mall...so I play all over the place...pretty convenient. Yourself? I feel like I know you from somewhere...what's your name?
From: dk******* (View Profile)
Subject: RE:RE:Holy freakin EYES!!! Sent Date: 9/10/2009 6:25:40 PM
Uh ohhh....my name is David ********. I knew a girl that looked similar to you when I lived in Orlando; but that's as close as I get.
I really like that area; I came close to moving into Rocky Pointe. I never got to know the best places to hang out in; any recommendations the next time I'm over there?
From: *****MUA (View Profile)
Subject: RE:RE:RE:Holy freakin EYES!!! Sent Date: 9/10/2009 6:46:11 PM
I lived in Orlando from 01' until 08'...sooooooo you know...I may know you lol. I moved to Tampa a couple months ago so I'm not really sure I know many things that go on here yet...but I'm learning. :)
From: *****MUA (View Profile)
Subject: RE:RE:RE:Holy freakin EYES!!! Sent Date: 9/10/2009 6:55:57 PM
Did you ever go by the name Oscar?...or something like that?? Hung out with Bosco in Orlando years ago...worked at Carrabbas at some point years ago?? Tell me I'm right.
From: d********* (View Profile)
Subject: RE:RE:RE:RE:Holy freakin EYES!!! Sent Date: 9/10/2009 9:35:21 PM
*******!!!!!!! HAHAHAHAHAHA. Holy shit! Get the **** out of here...Duhhh, I knew a girl when I was in Orlando, but uhhhh; I can't believe it!! I thought I was at Outback when I knew you, then you came to Carrabba's...I've been laughing for the last hour man. Call me if you want; (727) 271-****.
From: dkl****** (View Profile)
Subject: Holy freakin EYES!!! Sent Date: 9/10/2009 10:22:30 AM
What's up? I'm sure you're really attractive and what not, but looking at your profile, I think you'd be the coolest person to just chill with; what side of town do you spend your time on?
From: *****MUA (View Profile)
Subject: RE:Holy freakin EYES!!! Sent Date: 9/10/2009 2:27:18 PM
Hey I live in Tampa...near International Mall...so I play all over the place...pretty convenient. Yourself? I feel like I know you from somewhere...what's your name?
From: dk******* (View Profile)
Subject: RE:RE:Holy freakin EYES!!! Sent Date: 9/10/2009 6:25:40 PM
Uh ohhh....my name is David ********. I knew a girl that looked similar to you when I lived in Orlando; but that's as close as I get.
I really like that area; I came close to moving into Rocky Pointe. I never got to know the best places to hang out in; any recommendations the next time I'm over there?
From: *****MUA (View Profile)
Subject: RE:RE:RE:Holy freakin EYES!!! Sent Date: 9/10/2009 6:46:11 PM
I lived in Orlando from 01' until 08'...sooooooo you know...I may know you lol. I moved to Tampa a couple months ago so I'm not really sure I know many things that go on here yet...but I'm learning. :)
From: *****MUA (View Profile)
Subject: RE:RE:RE:Holy freakin EYES!!! Sent Date: 9/10/2009 6:55:57 PM
Did you ever go by the name Oscar?...or something like that?? Hung out with Bosco in Orlando years ago...worked at Carrabbas at some point years ago?? Tell me I'm right.
From: d********* (View Profile)
Subject: RE:RE:RE:RE:Holy freakin EYES!!! Sent Date: 9/10/2009 9:35:21 PM
*******!!!!!!! HAHAHAHAHAHA. Holy shit! Get the **** out of here...Duhhh, I knew a girl when I was in Orlando, but uhhhh; I can't believe it!! I thought I was at Outback when I knew you, then you came to Carrabba's...I've been laughing for the last hour man. Call me if you want; (727) 271-****.
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Thursday, September 10, 2009
A second date with Mr. Mark
Went on my second date with a chunk of sexy hunk of man meat I like to call Mr. Mark. I want to start off by saying holy body batman. He is so incredibly handsome and his body is rock hard. Makes me want to hit the gym super hard for the next few months...meow. Okay...moving along. So we met at Green Iguana for a few beers...originally we were only going to chill for a few hours and I was going to go on my date but I decided to bail out on good ol' Blue Eyes Matt (who was super pissed at me...so that wont be going anywhere). So Marks friend comes up and meet with us and has a few drinks. I'm really anxious to see what he has to say about me...he kept looking at me and I tried to be engaging in their conversation...sooo again we'll have to see. So Mark and I stayed around the Iguana for a few hours, then we went and had some sushi (take two) and then off to his house so he could get his fantasy football draft picks. We had a really fun time...laying around watching movies and just chatting. Then the awesome yummy super sexy second kiss happened. Yup fireworks were present. And thank god for that...nothing ruins something sexy like a shit kiss.
So 2 o'clock rolls around and we've both kind of fallen asleep on the couch...so he insists that I stay the night. I'm thinking to myself there go all my new rules. lol But I'm happy to say I was sort of a good girl...aka I didn't bang his brains out even though it crossed my mind on several different occasions. So he's really cute, gets me a toothbrush, some soap, clothes to change into. So we cuddle all night...have a few kisses and that's that. We kind of got bad in the morning though...we couldn't keep out hands off each other...one thing led to another and oops my panties fell off...we did a little playing around here and there but no sex!
So I left this morning. We've texted back and forth a few times. I'm really interested in seeing where this whole thing leads us. I'd like to say I have hope in this but we all know my streak with men...so who knows.
I do have a first date tonight with Will The Pool Guy. Lol yup I go from clean cut freakin sexy as hell Mr. Mark to tatted up sexy as hell Will The Pool Guy. Updates coming soon.
So 2 o'clock rolls around and we've both kind of fallen asleep on the couch...so he insists that I stay the night. I'm thinking to myself there go all my new rules. lol But I'm happy to say I was sort of a good girl...aka I didn't bang his brains out even though it crossed my mind on several different occasions. So he's really cute, gets me a toothbrush, some soap, clothes to change into. So we cuddle all night...have a few kisses and that's that. We kind of got bad in the morning though...we couldn't keep out hands off each other...one thing led to another and oops my panties fell off...we did a little playing around here and there but no sex!
So I left this morning. We've texted back and forth a few times. I'm really interested in seeing where this whole thing leads us. I'd like to say I have hope in this but we all know my streak with men...so who knows.
I do have a first date tonight with Will The Pool Guy. Lol yup I go from clean cut freakin sexy as hell Mr. Mark to tatted up sexy as hell Will The Pool Guy. Updates coming soon.
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
A roommates advice...
Hi Hun!
Ok so I can’t text at work so I am going to e-mail.
I liked him a lot (Mr. Mark) and though that he was very respectful to you and to us which is a very big plus. I also think it’s a hard situation to meet a girls friends and I like how he did that with no fear and was really sweet. So overall I like him a lot.
I really want you to see what other kinds of guys are out there though because I think you’re selling yourself short. Don’t get too caught up with this one right now. Continue to go on other dates and play the field of dating. You need to see that there are guys that treat you like a lady, are respectful and make you feel beautiful that aren’t still living at home or work at the movie theatre.
I think the new dating Andrea should continue to keep dating around and not focus in on one boy for awhile unless one sweeps you off your feet.
I think you should delete Kelly, Rich and Stacey from your phone too. That means all texts and phone logs. J
Ok so I can’t text at work so I am going to e-mail.
I liked him a lot (Mr. Mark) and though that he was very respectful to you and to us which is a very big plus. I also think it’s a hard situation to meet a girls friends and I like how he did that with no fear and was really sweet. So overall I like him a lot.
I really want you to see what other kinds of guys are out there though because I think you’re selling yourself short. Don’t get too caught up with this one right now. Continue to go on other dates and play the field of dating. You need to see that there are guys that treat you like a lady, are respectful and make you feel beautiful that aren’t still living at home or work at the movie theatre.
I think the new dating Andrea should continue to keep dating around and not focus in on one boy for awhile unless one sweeps you off your feet.
I think you should delete Kelly, Rich and Stacey from your phone too. That means all texts and phone logs. J
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Frist date with Mr. Mark
So I went on my first date with Mr. Mark last night. I met him on POF a few weeks back. We've been texting here and there and finally decided to meet up. I actually thought I was meeting someone else to start with but went back over my POF account and realized that who I thought I was meeting turned out to be someone else. Which was a major plus!
So we met at Bar Louie for a drink...we both agreed if we liked where things were going we'd head and grab a bite to eat. We did. Went and had some sushi. Then we left said out good nights. Found out my roommate was at Bar Louie so I went back to see her and Mark came back because he still wanted to hang out. :) We hung out for a few more hours...I could tell neither of us really wanted to call it a night but in better judgment we did. We had the weird awkward first date first kiss thing...it was weird. I always want first kisses to be super yummy and they always end up being a total mess of shit. I hope we get a redo this afternoon when we meet.
Okay about the man...yeah I said man and not about the boy. Mark is a 35 year old man that lives in downtown Tampa. He doesn't have any children and hasn't been married but was engaged when he was much younger. He's incredibly handsome with dark hair, dark eyes and a body to die for. I mean yummers! We seem to have a bit in common but not everything by any means. We established we both like horror movies, sushi, vodka, sporting events and all the other bla bla blas we could come up with.
We're meeting today around 5 for happy hour and then off to our own separate dates with other people. This is not stated by either of us but it's a Wednesday at 7 o'clock and we're both busy hanging out with "friends"...I don't think so that's a total date day and time. Sooo we'll see how things go.
Side note I was supposed to meet up with a photographer I've worked with in the past for drinks last night. I thought it was going to be a business drink to discuss projects he has coming up...today he left me a message on facebook asking why I missed our date. SO NOT A DATE IN MY BOOK!
Oh and Kelly is still texting me (speaking of first kisses...best first kiss in a long time...so good we had sex). He seems interested (probably because of the sex thing) and then not so much (probably because of the sex on the second date thing) so I have no idea what's going on with him. I do like him very much...but I feel it's not going to go anywhere.
Okay woohoo for Mr. Mark...let's see where this leads. Going on a date with Matt Blue Eyes tonight...I think...I haven't heard from him in a few days but I think we're still on.
So we met at Bar Louie for a drink...we both agreed if we liked where things were going we'd head and grab a bite to eat. We did. Went and had some sushi. Then we left said out good nights. Found out my roommate was at Bar Louie so I went back to see her and Mark came back because he still wanted to hang out. :) We hung out for a few more hours...I could tell neither of us really wanted to call it a night but in better judgment we did. We had the weird awkward first date first kiss thing...it was weird. I always want first kisses to be super yummy and they always end up being a total mess of shit. I hope we get a redo this afternoon when we meet.
Okay about the man...yeah I said man and not about the boy. Mark is a 35 year old man that lives in downtown Tampa. He doesn't have any children and hasn't been married but was engaged when he was much younger. He's incredibly handsome with dark hair, dark eyes and a body to die for. I mean yummers! We seem to have a bit in common but not everything by any means. We established we both like horror movies, sushi, vodka, sporting events and all the other bla bla blas we could come up with.
We're meeting today around 5 for happy hour and then off to our own separate dates with other people. This is not stated by either of us but it's a Wednesday at 7 o'clock and we're both busy hanging out with "friends"...I don't think so that's a total date day and time. Sooo we'll see how things go.
Side note I was supposed to meet up with a photographer I've worked with in the past for drinks last night. I thought it was going to be a business drink to discuss projects he has coming up...today he left me a message on facebook asking why I missed our date. SO NOT A DATE IN MY BOOK!
Oh and Kelly is still texting me (speaking of first kisses...best first kiss in a long time...so good we had sex). He seems interested (probably because of the sex thing) and then not so much (probably because of the sex on the second date thing) so I have no idea what's going on with him. I do like him very much...but I feel it's not going to go anywhere.
Okay woohoo for Mr. Mark...let's see where this leads. Going on a date with Matt Blue Eyes tonight...I think...I haven't heard from him in a few days but I think we're still on.
Tuesday, September 8, 2009
Eww Debbie downer
I was a happy chickie last time I wrote. Okay well here's where I'm at now. Single.
So I'm back online...joined PlentyOfFish.com. So far it's been pretty cool. I've met two people off of it...three more dates lined up this week including tonight. The first guy I met was Kelly. He was freakin adorable, sexy, meow. He had tattoos, in a band, owns a recording studio. He was perfect...except I decided to sleep with him on the second date...I'm learning this is kind of a bad thing. Guys don't respect you if you do...my mom is so smart. So I'm pretty sure things are fucked with him...but hey it's all about learning and that's what I'm doing.
The second guy I met is a hopeless mess of shit. His name is Adam but he goes by his radio name Woj...such a douche. I mean he's really sweet and he means well he's just a total awkward mess. He talks a lot about himself and he's done everything in the world...lol...that's what he says. He was shorter than what he said he was, balding like woah, kind of chubby, and weird.
My roommate says I date doods out of my league in the wrong direction. We had this talk again the other day. I was talking with a good friend about it and she totally agreed. She says I have too many complexes I need to get over.
So tonight I'm meeting a guy. I've been calling him Mark but I think I just found out his name is Mike...OOPS! Let you know how that goes.
So I'm back online...joined PlentyOfFish.com. So far it's been pretty cool. I've met two people off of it...three more dates lined up this week including tonight. The first guy I met was Kelly. He was freakin adorable, sexy, meow. He had tattoos, in a band, owns a recording studio. He was perfect...except I decided to sleep with him on the second date...I'm learning this is kind of a bad thing. Guys don't respect you if you do...my mom is so smart. So I'm pretty sure things are fucked with him...but hey it's all about learning and that's what I'm doing.
The second guy I met is a hopeless mess of shit. His name is Adam but he goes by his radio name Woj...such a douche. I mean he's really sweet and he means well he's just a total awkward mess. He talks a lot about himself and he's done everything in the world...lol...that's what he says. He was shorter than what he said he was, balding like woah, kind of chubby, and weird.
My roommate says I date doods out of my league in the wrong direction. We had this talk again the other day. I was talking with a good friend about it and she totally agreed. She says I have too many complexes I need to get over.
So tonight I'm meeting a guy. I've been calling him Mark but I think I just found out his name is Mike...OOPS! Let you know how that goes.
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