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So it's 8:15 and I'm about to leave to head to Ronnies for the night. I really didn't think I was going to get to see him this week so it's a nice surprise that I'm heading over later. His daughter is in town so I'm not going to head over until she's in bed. He mentioned tonight that he and his ex decided that nobody meets the little lady until they are damn near engaged. I think that's a good idea...I would be shocked if it were any other way.

So now that I'm dating someone I'm actually interested in the boys are coming out of the wood work. Dave from college has been texting me lately. Hooman just texted me tonight to see if I wanted to do wine and a movie tonight. Chris is back in the picture because we ran into each other the other night at a concert so he wanted to see a movie tonight. Rob texted me last night to see if I wanted to do dinner tonight. Freakin what the crap...why can't they come around when I'm not interested in someone!

Okay well it's kind of flattering that so many guys are knocking at the door...but I could go without the distractions!

Ron, Ronnie, Ronald.

So it's been a nutty few weeks with work and dating. But I have some time and I'd like to play catch up with what's going on.

So Ron is still number one. We've hung out a few more times...I happened to be around at the right (or wrong) time and met his mom last week. We had the most fantastic date the other night...we went and saw The Black Keys and Kings Of Leon. He is the best. I really do hope things continue on the path that they are. We currently are on a once a week hanging out sort of schedule. He's been working a lot (he wanted to fill his time with work since he was single and didn't have anything else to do)...he's been also spending a bit of time with his family...which I love. He made a comment the other day that I was made for him...like a special order. I thought that was the sweetest thing a man has said to me. Yes, I'm smitten. But I'm being cautious with him...I don't to put it all out there just to get hurt. He does say he's looking to get married again when the time is right. He wants two kids. I think he wants a stay at home wife...which is something I could be all about if I could still do makeup and volunteering on the side.

Okay yeah see total new mind set...talking family shit now. Weird.

Ron is taking the lead.

So it's been a couple weeks since I've written and several things have happened. I sort of stopped chatting it up with Chris. We just sort of stopped talking...it was driving me nuts that he does is sit around the house all day and do nothing. He doesn't appear to be looking to do anything with himself and I can't have that in my life. If I date unmotivated people it generally makes me unmotivated. So he's out...for now.

I did meet Ron a few weeks ago. We met on match.com...duh. He's 38, a pilot, and handsome!! He's divorced and has a 3 year old daughter. He's really fantastic...but we all know that's what I think of all of them in the beginning. We are doing date three tonight. Date one was dinner and a few drinks, date two was dinner and lots of drinks...we were supposed to go to the movies but we didn't make it. We got hammered and really had a blast. He's a lot of fun. Tonight is low key...pizza, wine and a movie at his place. We have also been doing the video chat thing...first time I've really done that with someone I'm dating...soooo fun. Okay so I think Ron is eventually looking to get married again...he made a comment that he's on all the sites because he doesn't want to screw around and wants to find someone.

This would normally make me run but things have changed a bit in my mind. I've been spending a lot of time with my sister, her husband and their daughter. I'm falling in love with the idea of being a wife and mom. But I want to make sure I find the right man...I don't ever want to be a single mom or divorced. I think I'm going to sort of only date the ones that are looking for long term...cool it with the "fun" guys who aren't going to get serious anytime soon.

I don't know...we shall see.